Can I Claim Damages for Intimate Partner Violence in Ontario? A Look at Ahluwalia and Mitchell

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Intimate partner violence (“IPV”) can take many forms. As the Supreme Court recognized in its long-awaited decision on the tort of IPV, Ahluwalia v. Ahluwalia, IPV is not limited to physical violence, but includes “tactics of isolation, manipulation, humiliation, surveillance, economic abuse, sexual coercion, and intimidation that can control and entrap intimate partners.” The Supreme Court has recognized IPV as a serious social problem that extends far beyond physical violence.
But given how new and untested this tort is, many questions remain: Who can sue for intimate partner violence? What threshold must be crossed for the conduct for a claim to be successful? And how will damages be assessed by the courts?
The Test for the Tort
The Supreme Court created a three-part test to determine if conduct meets the threshold for the tort of IPV:
The abusive conduct must have happened in an intimate partnership or its aftermath;
the defendant must have intentionally engaged in that conduct; and
the conduct must objectively be coercive control.
Each of these elements must be established on a balance of probabilities before damages can be awarded.
Who Can Sue?
The first prong of the test sets out the threshold requirement for bringing an IPV claim. Specifically, the claimant must be, or have been, in an intimate relationship with the person against whom the claim is made, and the abusive or violent conduct must have occurred during or following that relationship.
What is Intentional Conduct?
The second prong of the test asks if the conduct was intentional. This prong can be easily confused for a requirement that the defendant subjectively intended to be abusive, controlling, or act with malice. The claimant need only show that the defendant intentionally engaged in the conduct itself. It is not necessary to prove that the defendant intended to control their partner or intended to commit IPV.
Put differently, the court is concerned with whether the conduct itself was deliberate, not whether the defendant intended to be abusive or admits that the conduct was abusive.
What is Coercive Control?
In Mitchell v. Mitchell, one of the first decisions applying the new tort of IPV after Ahluwalia, the court described coercive control as the feature that distinguishes the tort from existing claims such as assault, battery, and intentional infliction of emotional distress. The element of coercive control is what allows the tort of IPV to address patterns of abusive behaviour that may not be actionable in isolation but become actionable when considered collectively.
In determining whether conduct constitutes coercive control, the Court will consider acts of violence that undermine the claimant’s autonomy, dignity, and equality. The Court set out a non-exhaustive list of conduct beyond physical violence which may constitute coercive control, including:
psychological, sexual or emotional violence; controlling behaviour such as stalking, monitoring activities and financial control; intimidation, threats to family members, or making false allegations to the police or to employers; litigation abuse; and preventing the victim from seeing family and friends, working, or participating in other educational or recreational activities.
While the tort was designed to capture patterns of behaviour, the Court is clear that multiple acts are not necessary to establish coercive control; A single act of violence may be sufficient to establish liability if, viewed in context, it objectively constitutes coercive control and undermines the claimant's dignity, autonomy, and equality in the relationship.
The Supreme Court also placed important restraints on the element of coercive control. First, it excludes instances of violence that do not interfere with the claimant’s dignity, autonomy, and equality in the relationship, particularly when the violent act is committed in resistance to an intimate partner's attempt to dominate or control the other (though these instances may still be actionable under the traditional torts).
Second, the Supreme Court is very clear that the tort of IPV does not impose liability based on “the inevitable ups and downs of a relationship or for mere dysfunction.” Coercive control must go beyond the “anti-social conduct that often characterizes a high conflict relationship breakdown.”
How Will the Court Assess Damages?
Once the above elements are satisfied, the court will assess damages; the claimant does not need to prove any additional consequential harm as the damages flow directly from the wrongful conduct.
In Ahluwalia, the court gave a broad framework for assessing damages for the tort of IPV. First, they reject any “family discount” in assessing damages. The Court observed that trial judges often assess damages lower where violence takes place between intimate partners, and they firmly denounce this approach.
Second, the Court held that IPV causes a distinct harm. As a result, damages for IPV may be higher than damages that would otherwise be available for related claims such as assault, battery, or intentional infliction of emotional distress. An award must be sufficient to compensate the claimant for the harm to their dignity, autonomy, and equality, in addition to whatever other harm they may have suffered under the traditional torts.
More specific guidance on damages has recently arrived from the Superior Court in Mitchell v. Mitchell. Justice Vella held that damages for the tort of IPV are to be assessed using ordinary tort law principles, which can include pain and suffering, loss of income, compensation for specific expenses (special damages), as well as aggravated and punitive damages. However, Mitchell is particularly significant because it provides the first roadmap for assessing damages after Ahluwalia. Justice Vella first assessed the claimant's damages for battery, assault, and intentional infliction of emotional distress at $300,000. She then separately considered the tort of IPV and concluded that an additional $100,000 was required to compensate the claimant for the distinct harm caused by coercive control and the resulting impairment of her dignity, autonomy, and equality. The result was a total compensatory award of $400,000, plus $25,000 in punitive damages.
In practical terms, the court treated the tort of IPV as compensating a distinct injury beyond the traditional torts. After assessing damages for the assaults, batteries, and emotional abuse, The court concluded that an additional $100,000 was required to compensate for the loss of dignity, autonomy, and equality recognized in Ahluwalia.
Key Takeaways
To be successful in a claim for IPV, the violent or abusive conduct must have arisen in an intimate relationship between the claimant and the defendant; the conduct must have been intentional by the defendant; and the conduct must amount to coercive control.
Coercive control is a broad category of abusive conduct that can be defined as conduct that undermines or interferes with the claimant’s autonomy, dignity, and equality within the relationship.
The tort of IPV is designed to capture coercive and controlling conduct that is not fully addressed by the traditional torts.
The courts have recognized IPV as causing a distinct harm which can entitle the claimant to compensation beyond what they may be entitled to under the ‘traditional torts.’
If you are considering bringing a claim for IPV, obtaining legal advice early can help clarify your rights and options. Reach out to a member of our team today.



